My wife and I were watching TV last night, when the person on the show said something to the effect of “I am looking for the perfect spouse.”
My wife and I both laughed! And, I hate to break it to them, but THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PERFECT!
There is no such thing as a perfect investment, perfect spouse, perfect house, perfect job, or perfect fill in the blank.
It doesn’t matter what you are searching for, or what playing field you are on, the perfect choice does not exist!
Because perfect is an illusion.
“Perfect” Is a Lie We All Tell Ourselves
When we deem something as “not perfect”, we are able to get off easy.
We don’t have to make the hard choices.
We don’t have to do the hard work.
We opt out.
Therefore, “perfect” is nothing more than a lie that we all tell ourselves.
It is a crutch. It is a wall. It is something we are using to hide from the truth.
The truth is that we can’t make a decision.
The truth is that we are afraid to stand for something.
And that is perfectly ok. But let’s not hide behind it anymore!
There is No Perfect Way to Do Something
Of course there are times when we need to be highly accurate -> such as launching a rocket, building a plane, or creating a vaccine.
But highly accurate is still not the same as perfect.
In most of life’s circumstances we are searching for the optimal way to do something:
- the right time
- the right place
- the right person
- the right attitude
- the right weather
- the right price
Well guess what? James Clear hit this one on the head, because there isn’t a best approach or any right way to accomplish your goals.
The best way to do anything is to make a decision and act.
Don’t Strive to be Perfect: Strive to Act
There is no perfect way to invest -> just start investing.
There is no perfect way to lose weight -> just start moving.
There is no perfect way to be a parent -> just parent.
There is no perfect way to start a business -> just start.
And the antidote to “perfect” is through action and decision making.
Stop focusing on finding the perfect job, the perfect house, the perfect investment, the perfect fill in the blank.
If it checks off 9/10 boxes, make a decision and move on.
You don’t have to be perfect to build wealth.
You don’t have to be perfect to be a good parent.
You don’t have to be perfect to build a great business.
You do not have to be perfect to accomplish great things.
But you must act!